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She might not “get it” yet, but she will be drinking it in anyway- learning what society thinks is beautiful, what’s laughable, what’s cool (playing dumb), and what’s embarrassing (appearing to be smarter).
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And I don’t want her first literary exposures to sexism, racism, or adult erotic love to be so difficult to understand and full of implicit biases. At age ten, she is an advanced reader in some senses, but not yet a critical reader who can understand the subtext of what she reads. I find that I don’t want my own daughter to read this book. and then murdered and framed her subordinates to cover it up. There is a handsome but weak-willed male teacher known as “The One” surrounded by hysterical spinsters: a lovelorn lesbian who pines for him, her jilted embittered and unsympathetic female lover, and a woman who appears to be strong and admirable, but who is actually (Spoiler Alert!) an unscrupulous murderess who killed a student rather than be exposed as her “natural” mother. They are untrustworthy, but not funny and grotesque like Roald Dahl’s creations. And the adult characters trade on stereotypes as well. There are also unchallenged beauty standards: Daisy is beautiful, golden, athletic, graceful, while Hazel bemoans her short stocky figure. The author does not make the perpetrators of cruelty and intolerance sympathetic, and I recognize it’s a historical novel, but for many younger readers, the take-away could just be “blend in and don’t make waves” or “go-along to get-along.” While it may be true that girls and women often find that they are better-liked if they hide their real abilities, it is a depressingly realpolitik message that I would rather have challenged than reinforced. There is an unsubtle message that female intelligence is a social drawback- and that enduring racist aggression uncomplainingly, may be easier than standing up for yourself. She earns her peers’ respect by not telling on them. At another point Hazel is “hazed” by being locked up in a trunk.
On the debit side, part of Daisy’s mentoring involves teaching Hazel to blend in by disguising her intelligence.
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On the plus side, Daisy defends her friend from the casual racism that surrounds them, and ultimately learns to listen to and appreciate her as more than just a sidekick.
The two girls form a friendship despite their different backgrounds because of their shared intelligence.īut even for older readers, here’s where the story fails to win me over: the story frames Hazel as a hero-worshipping sidekick to Daisy, and thus does less than it could to challenge stereotypes. The other child, a dutiful daughter and diligent student named Hazel, is a Chinese girl from Hong Kong whose father aspires for her to become a Proper English Miss. One child, Daisy, is depicted as the ultimate “English Miss”, a real blue-blood, blue-eyed and golden-haired English girl, who is also too smart and too imaginative to really fit the stereotype. It is a British boarding school mystery that features two whip-smart upper class girls in the pre WWII years. And that’s really more than any ten year old can decipher. The safe English boarding school novel is actually a seething pit of passions, jealousies, shame, regret, and fear of exposure. But in the end, it is the impenetrable motivations of the untrustworthy adults around them that is the real mystery for protagonists and readers. The two protagonists are sweetly innocent themselves, and like Harriet the Spy, spunky and curious and eager to find a mystery to solve. teachers are having sexual affairs, there are secret illegitimate children, people are murdered to cover up their sexual pasts and from passion and jealousy). These are young teenage characters, who may not know the mechanics of sex or have experienced sexual passion themselves, but they know of its existence, and the mystery turns on the social repercussions of violating the sexual norms of the period (i.e. Note: 3rd form in the UK is Not comparable to 3rd grade in the US. Parents should know that in addition to being an engaging mystery, there is a lot that is problematic with regards to how it depicts issues of race, sexuality, body-image, and that a lot of the content is for more mature readers. I know I was supposed to love this book- but.
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